After a douchebag?
I think it’s important to get yourself up, dust yourself off from all of the bullshit you were apparently rolling around in, and get over it.
So, that’s what I did. I got up, dusted myself off and decided to accept an invitation from a man for a … “meet”. (Yes, I’m back to Meets!)
Now the interesting thing about this particular man is the fact that he is …
Gorgeous.
Utterly beautiful. Downright hot. Women stared at him wherever we went. Men stared at him wherever we went. I introduced him to a friend of mine, who is and always has been gay. He stared at my Meet. Then he stared some more. And then he looked at me and said, “I suddenly feel conflicted.”
*Laugh*
You know what I did? I stereotyped. I absolutely stereotyped this man because of what he looks like. And yes, probably because of the douchbag and my fair share of them over the years.
BAD BAD QT!
You know how that goes. Men that look like him are typically jerks. Men that look the way he does don’t have to treat women well because they have women fawning all over them. A man who looks like him would never want to date me. Blah Blah, I could go on and on.
Instead, I’d just like to say that I was the jerk for stereotyping this guy. Cuz really, he just proved me wrong. A whole heckuva lot wrong. Once I realized just how wrong I was, I actually laughed at myself.
I’m not saying he’s my boyfriend, I’m not saying it’s going anywhere. What I am saying, is that I had a great meet (that turned into two meets) with an extremely enjoyable, handsome man.
And yeah, that old favorite saying of mine is true.
Never judge a martini by its color.
And apparently, never judge a meet by his appearance. :-p
So are there any more uncoming meets with said gentleman?
There are!
This weekend, as a matter of fact.
Here’s to hoping for many more awesome meets for you!
Not at all surprised.
Good for you! I have no idea how you meet all these men to well, “meet”
In 2 years I have not run into, been introduced, or otherwise found one single eligible man I would consider dating (were I not mad about my BLT that is) Not one hottie… Nada!
You must be smokin’ hot QT
I think we have a new nickname for this guy.
Meat.
And also: big ol’ eyeroll from me.
R.
Well, ya know what they say…the best way to get over someone is to get *under* someone else. Heh. Good for you, QT. Nothing wrong with a little eye candy to accompany the martinis and bacon. You GO, girl!
Cookie,
His nickname is TBone.
And you’re only rolling your eyes cuz I showed you his picture and you know he’s a great big ball of gorgeous too.
His nickname is TBone? Haven’t we used that one before?
He’s a handsome guy! Go get ‘im, tiger!
Hubba hubba! Your meet does sound like Meat ;-P Love it. Glad you dusted yourself off. You deserve better!
I don’t think we have, have we? Regardless, I have my reasons for that one.
And, it’s you that loves me. Let’s not forget that.
I’m thinking qt is running out of names!
I hope all goes well with Tbone! How long has it been since you have watched Clifford anyways?
I sensed a touch of RE jealousy.
*grin*
Okay, fine, I love you, QT.
Marja – Madly jealous. **MADLY**. Insanely. Wickedly. Massively jealous.
Or not.
-R.
It’s what’s on the inside that counts … no matter how great they might look
Lafe – Excellent point! Are you new to me?
First time visitor as far as I know
OH my goodness! I hope you come back! I love new readers! I love all my readers, of course, but I dig new readers too.
Whatever you do, don’t go to Random Esquire’s blog. You’ll be bored. Talking about my two car vagina all the damn time. PFFT.
So I’m with “Little Ol’ Me”…where are you finding all these men??? P.S. I am a first time commenter….but have been following now for a couple weeks
WOO HOOO!! LURKERS! I love lurkers! Welcome to the crazy two car vag world Tat!!
Ahh .. ok you guys haven’t followed long enough to know the story … You can find it here buried in the comments. It’s my secret to meeting men.
http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2010/01/28/stuff-the-f-word-full-moons-and-shanana/#comment-4691
Haha…why thanks for the inspiration! I will promptly be preparing my sign asap!!!
And always stand on the dumpster … it’s the most important part!
Check….andddddd check!!! and ps…I started my very own blog, check it out. I think there is a link attached to my screen name??? haha, can you tell how new I am?
I checked it out, your post was a month old though?
It is and I am slow….stay tuned, I promise to have a new post very, very soon!
*Laugh* I will then.
And this is exactly why I could never be a vegetarian. Mmmmm…. meat.
Well, ok, that and bacon.
Love me some you, QT. xxoo
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It is sunday,, no one wants to be on call on a weekend when it is fun to play,, what a girl to do,have a QT break under the stair well,, Ahh fun to read Mr. Gorgeous. *grin*
P.S. It is your vulnerability and raw emotions that makes people esp women want to follow-up your blog. Ciao darling!
N.
Well heck, the dumpster idea is way better than mine (taping my photo and phone number on gas station men’s room walls). Oh well. Whether it is a “meet” or a “meat”, doesn’t matter. As long as he treats you like the beautiful woman you are, then go for it. I’m enjoying my own “meat” currently. Gotta love a man who wakes up in the middle of the night, looks at you and says, “I just had the best dream and I woke up and it came true, I do have the most beautiful woman laying beside me.” It is what it is, doesn’t mean that it might not be something in the future, but for now it is light and fun and exciting.
Reference…
Take a look at a fantastic illustration of what I mean by that…