Things I find sexy in a man …
- Pushing my chair in when I’m trying to scoot it in myself.
- Opening doors. MOST importantly, car doors.
- Boxers or Boxer Briefs.
- Chivalry!
- Intelligence
- Meat on his bones
- Cologne. Not bathed in cologne, but a nice smelling man? Mmmmmmm
- Confidence (NOT arrogance!)
- Sense of humor
- Single Dads
- A nice set of lips. I can stare for hours at a nice set of lips.
- Accents
- Ties
- The V
- Good hands (don’t care about jerk nails!)
- Honesty
- Doing what he says he’s going to do
- A man that cares about kissing as much as he does sex
- A firm hold on me, that’s just sexy as hell
- That scruffy look of not shaving for a few days. Mmm Hmmmm
- Knowing how to fix things!
- Good teeth
- A man that can make a martini
- Spontaneity
- A man that likes me sleeping in The Nook
- A man that can cook. Really cook!
- Did I mention an accent?
- Giving flowers for no reason
- A man that can play an instrument. Totally does something for me. Seriously.
- One who likes playing Monopoly with me.
- Watching a new dad with his baby
- Men that lift heavy things for me
Just to name a few …
Men, what do you find sexy in a woman?
I agreee with all of the above which pretty much covers it.
I also love a man’s eyes and looking into them while we’re talking, laughing, flirting and especially during sex and while we…
Sex face is hot.
Ooooooo good one Mindy! An important one I forgot. I dig the sex face too!
I third the sex face!! Hooray for sex face!!
I also love a man who is passionate about something. Preferably something that is interesting to me so that I can have him teach me all about it…
Rascal grew up raising thoroughbred horses. He said he wants to take me to the track to teach me how to bet on the ponies. I say HELLS to the YEAH!
I think when a man is passionate about something, that confidence really shows through.
Wow, we’re really getting going on the sexy men in the blogosphere today! Whew! TGIF!!
* A man that cares about kissing as much as he does sex
*Blink*
You know why a guy would tell you that he cares as much about kissing as he does about sex?
So he could have sex with you.
-R.
RE,
Thanks for keeping it real. *eye roll*
Love and kisses,
QT
*jotting down list of sexy things and, after double checking, notes that eye rolling is not on it.*
Shocking!
What’s shocking is that you are taking notes on things that are sexy. GOOD JOB Cookie!
I started a list but couldn’t finish it. This is because I find just about everything sexy about women. I admit that I find many things that are stereotypically female sexy. Long hair, smell good, emotional, curvy…
and, unfortunately, I tend to like high maintenance women.
Gahhhh.
This is also my downfall.
*sigh*
*Hugs* Cookie.
You won’t be single for long, I’m sure of it.
Women are very tolerant of your … issues.
Okay, that made me laugh.
You rotten egg.
LOL, I thought you weren’t a girl for making a list. I could go for your list – and truth be told, I do think I like a “sexy” list better than a “looking for in a mate” list. It’s way more fun.
Myself, I’m a sucker for a man with a motorcycle, it’s probably my downfall.
Syd Syd Syd! I like lists, as long as the it’s QT-approval-able CONTENT! See?
Meat on his bones! Sooooo true!!!! My FAVORITE is red-headed freckly guys – they just all seem to have meat on their bones that I just wanna sink my teeth into!!!!
Ok, so now I can’t resist commenting on this one. In no particular order of importance.
1. A smart woman I can have a conversation WITH. There’s a reason it’s called a conversation. She has to do more than just listen, she needs to have ideas of her own, etc.
2. Kinda wondering what RE’s are, but a woman who will not only deal with, but embrace my ‘issues’ as strengths. She can’t be judgemental.
3. A woman that truly enjoys sex as much as I do and isn’t afraid to tell me what she likes so I can please her. I can only read minds on days ending in ‘y’.
4. A woman that enjoys adventure in life as much as I do for the sake of discovering new things, and will at least try new things once. I like to explore and I like my toys like my motorcycle and boat, etc and I’d want to share them with her and have her truly enjoy it, not just act like she does.
5. Absolute trust and honesty, even if it’s something I might not want to hear. If there’s really good communication in a relationship, most everything else can be worked through.
6. She has to enjoy wearing sexy lingerie & clothes as much as I enjoy buying it for her.
7. As RE said, while physical attraction is important, I like all aspects of ‘the fairer sex’. She doesn’t need to be a model, in fact I’d say I’m more attracted to real women in the 8 and below category than the 8 and higher ‘hotties’. While I try not to be judgmental, more often than not they’re too much work.
I’m generally into brunettes and redheads. QT is the rare blonde I think is sexy but that’s more about who she is.
By the way QT, I meet 26 of your 32 criteria. I can work on the others. To be fair you counted an accent twice.
Where do I apply?
BUDDHA! You think I’m sexy!? *giggle* and *blush*
You’ve applied already. Pretty much hired too.
Big time WORLD CLASS SEXY! Irishman knows what I’m talking about.
I’m not sure you’d put up with my ‘issues’ though. 
I’m with you on the sexy list. And Amen to the sex face…on *some* guys. Some of y’all have the weirdest sex faces….seriously!!!
heh
In no particular order…
sense of humor
reads
wit
ribbed Tank Tops
dimple in the small of the back
calves
likes my cooking
can sing
patience
playfulness
hats
glasses
empathy
Mac user
eats meat
nape of the neck
good parent
digs half bald guys
I’m with mommasunshine on that one. lol
Other things I find sexy,
*When they kill bugs for me, my bf killed a bee that was going to sting me with his hands before I even saw it… HOT!
*Not being intimidated when I get emotional.
*I also like some body hair, those guys with no arm, leg, chest hair at all freak me out.
That’s all for now
What fun stuff here! I love Jim’s list. And Buddha sounds pretty hot too!
Accents and the “scruffy look”. Mmmmm… (The rest are good too.)
Rats, I never wear a necktie. And you not only listed it, you featured a photo of one!
dadshouse, she didn’t say anything about WEARING neckties. ; )
See now, Jim knows what’s goin ON!! *laugh*
Chivman smells good AND has an accent. Oh Man why do we have to only be friends?? This list is perfect.
You know, I forgot one!
Calling when he says he’s going to call.. FOLLOWING THROUGH.
Yeah, that’s damn sexy.
Yeah, on that last one. Consistency and follow through are ALWAYS good on my list.
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