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]]> By: QTMama http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2159 Wed, 25 Feb 2009 20:04:02 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2159 Damn Zaribeni – You’re a certified hottie, aren’t ya? *laugh* Welcome.

]]> By: Zaribeni http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2158 Wed, 25 Feb 2009 20:02:04 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2158 Nice post! Keep it real.I have looked over your blog a few times and I love it.

]]> By: ShaNaNa http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2104 Thu, 19 Feb 2009 00:30:00 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2104 Im with SWM! All the way! Who said this??? Berni? Who the F is that??? Don’t even have a second thought of it! This pisses me off! I’m sorry but it does :(

]]> By: QTMama http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2102 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 18:07:23 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2102 T – Pffthbb! NO HELP WOMAN! *laugh*

Jane, you have every right to pull the friend card. You Know Me. Very well. :)

PT and LMM – *hugs* Thank you

Dad’s House – I really, just want YOU to adore me. *sweet smile*

Wingman – I love you. Lots. You’re alright in my book too, and I’ll share that drink with ya.

Mindy – Dude. Stop reading my blog. You’re in ASPEN! Go do Aspen things!

SWM – That comment about JagMan … girlie, that cracked me up. And you know, you’re right. You’re totally right. I love you for seeing it!

]]> By: singleworkingmommy http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2101 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:30:48 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2101 You? A narcissst? Never.

However, I do have a feeling Jag-Man might be one…

]]> By: MindyMom http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2100 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:30:03 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2100 Nah, to question whether you are or are not a narcissist means you are defintitely NOT one. We all have to love ourselves before we can truly love another so there has to be some self-love.

I have had two serious relationships with men who were both narcissists. Through therapy I learned a lot about myself, my upbringing and WHY I chose that kind of man. And hopefully now have the tools to steer clear of one. There are traits within us, learned conditions and responses that can make us miss the red flags and fall for a narcissist but it doesn’t mean we are one.

That first paragraph of your description is dead-on btw!

]]> By: The Wingman http://qtmama.wordpress.com/2009/02/17/my-throat-the-blind-date-and-narcissism/#comment-2099 Wed, 18 Feb 2009 03:01:29 +0000 http://qtmama.wordpress.com/?p=837#comment-2099 nar·cis·sism (närs-szm) also nar·cism (-szm)
n.

1. Excessive love or admiration of oneself. See Synonyms at conceit.

** Love yourself? Oh, hell yeah! Excessive? Not so much. Conceited? Only when you’re drunk, maybe. *grin* Besides, your conceit is always playful anyway…so it doesn’t count.

2. A psychological condition characterized by self-preoccupation, lack of empathy, and unconscious deficits in self-esteem.

** Pffthbb! Not even CLOSE. Well, maybe that self-preoccupation part…just a little. But in reality, that’s part of what makes you interesting! Seriously.

3. Erotic pleasure derived from contemplation or admiration of one’s own body or self, especially as a fixation on or a regression to an infantile stage of development.

** Now we’re talkin’! I have a wicked picture in my mind right now: QT… A candle-lit room… Barry White…ok, not Barry White…uhhh, how about JT… A full-length mirror… *sigh* I’m pretty sure you’re going to have to answer this one babes, ’cause I (unfortunately) can’t!

4. The attribute of the human psyche charactized by admiration of oneself but within normal limits.

** I don’t get this one….doesn’t this sound like a non-narcissistic definition? “within normal limits” ? Weird. Maybe I’m still preoccupied with #3

Anyway, yeah…you’re alright in my book woman. I’ll drink to ya.

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